He was a half hearted man, with his legs torn open from falling from the top of the earth;
one leg down and the rest of the body to go.
I met him at his house. he was good and drunk, and his house was as neat as a catholic church.
He stumbled for a bit, muttered some ***** and ***** before sitting down on a wooden chair.
I was there to fix his leg. The drunk had torn it open in a display of falling glory.
The wound was a giant blood filled blister that got vacuumed and removed and now a giant hole remained.
He said he didn't give a **** what happened to his leg and I believed him.
So i cleansed the open wound, about the size of a banana, giant hole down to the muscle in his leg. New clean bandage applied. He said it felt good and that was an important victory.
And he said his pain was controlled well with the *****.
and i told him how ***** has its time but how it screws up the healing process and that this gaping open banana in his leg won’t close unless he chills with the ***.
he said life ***** sometimes and the ***** is a remedy.
Some part of me wanted to have a drink with him and just hear his side of the story;
what kind of **** had he been through, why he felt alcohol was the answer, why he didn't believe in hope and why was their a feeling that if death was to take him today, he’d be more than willing to go.
he didn’t really delve into much detail about his past and I didn't especially pry —this was my first time seeing this patient. I typically wait till the next visit before going into therapist mode and asking about history.
Maybe some people would be content with just going in and doing this guy’s wound and dipping out like he was a piece of an appliance on an assembly line, and get out.
Maybe the intoxication reminded them of someone they knew.
But I want to know another’s struggle. I want to understand why the life that we all live is so unforgiving to so many, I see a brother in arms, and I want to listen to whatever he’ll reveal.
and maybe its nothing, maybe he won't tell the whole story.
but I want this patient to know listeners exist, strangers care, and we might not be able to banish your demons but I’ll be ****** if I can’t sit by and listen and hear a man out.
And so we shook hands and I left wondering if he could see my demons, too