Ever notice that people act like they are for you
but instead of appreciation and reciprocation
they act like all the things you were doing out of love are mandatory
and if you stop doing those things because they don't reciprocate that makes you the problem.
Don't listen to the gas lighting
Just remember they need your energy your light but you don't need them.
You could move mountains for them but they won't cross a bridge for you.
Solution burn the bridge they refused to cross for you eliminating the option.