The Guise of Concern — a mask he wears, not to deceive maliciously, but because he needs to believe he’s the good guy.
A Sincere Coercive Affair — he performs love, performs sacrifice, performs responsibility. But underneath, it’s driven by fear, control, and a fragile self-image.
He’s not peacocking for you — he’s convincing himself.
It sets a trap: Call it out? You’re ungrateful. Difficult. Stay quiet? You betray yourself.