"The gay kid" I am so much more "The lesbian" That's not what I'm here for I'm proud to be who I am I know where I stand People act like that's all they see Those words that they think define me But they don't see the real me I'm the girl who will say "I love you" everyday I'm the girl who will go out of her way to make someone smile I'm the girl who would rather make you laugh than make you cry Someone who will stay up and talk all night I'm the girl with the complicated past I'm the girl who didn't think would last The smile on my face is a permanent reminder that life is hard But being gay doesn't always mean that I'm happy Don't tell me that who I am is defined by that word I've heard that when we die We aren't always remembered If you are going to remember me Remember what I've accomplished Remember the time I made you laugh The time I made you smile Remember the time I looked in your eyes and told you everything's okay I don't want to just be gay I will always be proud of who I am But people don't always understand That my life isn't based on who I love Its based on the good, the bad, and everything I overcome