I am the apple that fell off the family tree. They say I don't fall far, and its true. Its impossible to completely rid of my roots. But I still have the power to do what those stiff branches were too stubborn and fixed to:
Grow. Grow from their flaws and generational hurt. Plant the seed of healing which will grow with the generations to come into a new tree with deeper roots and riper fruit.
It hurts to detach myself from my history, But it would hurt more to put my children through the same pain.