Pushed? Pull until they fall with you. Shushed? Make a silence so deafening it drives them insane. If evil strikes your right cheek, slip that right hand so fast he falls on his face.
Be aggressively passive. Because fire plus fire just burns down the house. Be the negative space Invisible to everyone but those who are looking.
And if that maddening silence makes them scream, (which it very well may) reply calmly, but give no ground. not even an inch. and you will do more than win; you will baffle them.
Because all the pushers know to do is push.
They’ve never seen someone like you. someone so avoidantly direct. so deafeningly quiet. so precise in chaos.
You’re like negative space. and you baffle me because when I push you pull until I fall over myself. When I roar a lion’s roar you are a mouse
Yes, you are a puller and I am a pusher and I am so astonishingly fascinated by you.