Do you care about someone. Special? Or perhaps, a completely humble stranger. No danger.
You need to find “out” about them. But you need to “beat around the bush” So as not to scare them. So don’t push…hard.
Just say, the following…. “I had a real bad day", "I don’t feel well….." Wait 5 non-seconds.... And they will tell you to go **** yourself…… And then give you shelter and money.