Nobody understands someone who might have a lot going on; who might be hopelessly depressed. People that are going through a lot, Seem to have lost the light in their eyes and love in their hearts. They see everything for what it truly is, maybe slightly darker and don't believe in sugar-coating. They seem cold and distant, bitter towards life. "I hate this, I hate that", when in general you just hate life and the person you've become. You cannot see the good in anything or anyone and seem to be weighing out options, Seeking answers to what or whom is worth loving. It's hard because you know you can't sugarcoat things and make everything better with a simple spell. You can't change your perspective on life and what's around you; you just can't fix the way your mind works and how you think. This confuses people; they judge you for it. "She's just another god ****** pessimist" No, not pessimistic , just realistic. Something that can't be helped.