When the feelings of some people are more valuable than our way of life, well, then we've lost the plot.
If I traveled somewhere far and foreign, I'd do my best to conform to wherever I am.
I don't find that expecting that same behavior from people who come here to be immoral.
I refuse to feel guilty for who I am, just as I refuse to let pride dictate my mindset. It's two sides of the same coin.
Guess what? I get to decide how I feel, I get to decide what I think, how I behave.
I get to judge you.
The golden rule still applies though, thus I conduct myself in a manner which is expecting of judgement from you. If I'm ******* up, shame me. If you're ******* up, I'll shame you. This is friendship, this is civility at it's most fundamental level. I want to respect you, I want to be respected, but never unconditionally. I want to earn it, I want to be deserving of it. You should want that too.
Your feelings aren't holding water, and we're all being flooded with the repercussions.
Don't drown us.
No, actually, We're not going to let you drown us.