The Life I Built from the Closet is comfortable, I know what people expect from me. The Life I Built from the Closet is black and white thinking. The Life I Built from the Closet is pink and blue gendering parties. The Life I Built from the Closet is church etiquette and weddings. The Life I Built from the Closet is volunteering and church events. The Life I Built from the Closet is getting used to the heteronormative narrative of romance. The Life I Built from the Closet is high stakes walking into church and not actually being who I am. Because as a wise friend once told me you are who you are. I am a bisexual woman through and through.