This is for Liz, who once sat down with me & spoke of terrible but necessary things. Her eyes browsed me and I paled: she locked our minds together to make sure I understood exactly what she meant. Liz died last Saturday. In our joint years of poetry (filled with unexpected stings that left our arms in gooseflesh braille 'til she digressed to dogs and leather) she taught me this: that sorrows should be shared - cultivate them, let them ferment - so we could drink them down like Cabernet.