You said my ideas are
"old school"

I should have known better..
Modern "love"..
Modern relationships..
Modern marriage..

It isn't about
Bonds or trust or honesty or emotion anymore..

It isn't about
Getting to know the other on the deepest levels..connection..chemistry..thoughtfulness anymore..

It isn't about thinking of the other person or considering their needs or how they crave to be loved or taken care of..

It's about selfishness..
It's about not opening up and not expressing emotions..
It's about self service and lust..
It's about looking out for yourself and protecting only yourself..

I suppose I should keep up with the times..