I am accustomed to being a first love. This is not an infatuation with pure or loving the untouched. It is an infatuation with the losing dogs. In school, my best subject was always English, my second best subject: history. The past is important. I only know how to work through my history with words. I cannot work through someone else's history with my words. When I am not a first love, I want to write to the loves who came before me. But how do I write to a love that was not mine? I imagine it would start with an apology.