we went to Vermont over the weekend not for leave peeping, but a somber occasion a funeral; funny it did not seem, or so we thought
here to see extended family on these seemly un-rare occasions more and more, every where death with a couple weddings thrown in
the weather was bright, crisp in the morning but gradually warming, for Vermont that is; something new a heat-wave in October- climate change in effect
while never having been to a Vermont funeral before my memories run the gamut on other stuffy affairs, overbearing and hard to breathe even, scary and hard to take
we got to the church, the crowds milling about, smoking everyone dressed like having got off work at 5, it was 10:30 AM leaving shifts from the garage or the mines, we were overdressed
none the less we were welcomed, with open arms by members of the immediate family, still we were all family the service was filled; hymn singing, mixed with salty laced stories
afterwards everyone ate, in rows of communal tables set up passing food back and forth, everyone brought a dish with more salty stories and laugher, more laughter such
heart- felt laughter then i have heard in my life time which made me stop to think, change my point of view about death to be reminded, our journey is but a continuation of a well life lived