i used to believe the cracks and missing pieces caused by another would keep me from being with the one who could love me properly. but as time, healing and care often does to you after heartbreak, i have learnt something. "love" with no space is simply attachment. the spaces and cracks left behind are how someone learns to truly love you. these spaces provide room for patience, understanding, growth. love. i’ve realised that loving someone means caring for them in the space between. to love someone is to fix them. to water them in their cracks with peace and light all to watch them grow. all to watch them heal all to watch them realise what love is. all to watch them learn how to love with space in between.