sometimes, people exist just for you to have a good time with them and then move on from
once you can accept that it makes everything a lot easier because a lot of happiness stems from managing expectations
the reason we get hurt so much is because we have a good time with someone then we obsess- waiting for them to text us wanting to see them again picturing our life with them and when we find out that they don't want exactly what we do we're crushed
but really, they don't owe us a future or anything at all they don't even owe us a text the next day
and i've come to accept that sometimes a good time can just be a good time without the promise of a future ..... and that's fine.
even though we know deep down we're not fine at all