Telling the truth to people close to you is a difficult feat, the accusations and repercussion can be dire. When you puncture the picture where they see themselves as helpful people. The unvarnished truth is they will rob you blind and expect you to be grateful. Those who were your friend will not help you for them, assistance have a pecuniary aspect, If you let the trespasses against you slide, you will think of yourself as a coward; and those who were your friends will feel contemptuous of you.