How do you raise a strong being with a resilient spirit
you raise them knowing they are cherished and just as divine as the plants and the animals and everyone around them
they will carry it with them throughout their entire life
and when someone tries consciously or unconsciously to grasp for control and power at they expense of their opinion, authenticity and their light
they spirit you helped raise will feel the drastic shift in intention they will feel the thickness of manipulation and rest on their anchor of self in that love and cherishment you showed them abides eternally with them
And having arrived at that open never ending space they will calmly turn towards the words of control and say “no” simply and confidently “NO”
I get to analyze things with my brilliant friend and each time they peel back a layer of a situation with me
How do we arrive at boundaries how were we taught boundaries
which are really necessary and we need to not violate our own boundaries my saying yes to others expectations of us