Don't make sound memories with whom you don't intend to show your deepest affections in a way that they'd find it hard to cut your connections or burn their wide, infinite illusions.
It's sick when you have to compromise, but it would be wiser to get rid of pungent lies as we are all humans vulnerable of the pain that not even the thickest firewall can restrain.
Listen to your heart and more to the inner voice that may tell what could cause much disdain but remember that a single unintentional snick is a lot worse than a miserable life of the bleak.