how weird is it growing up, you were the best you were going to make something out of yourself and today what you should be doing and the procrastination that has never been an issue before is crippling humiliating you're trying to be better to be okay with taking it easy but every so often the shame and panic sets in and you can't even do the basics how do you explain it to people people who say "i'm still proud of you" but that doesn't matter you're not proud of who you are and wanting to be proud of yourself when you feel so productive and mediocre is the hardest heartbreak you ever have to endure?