We put people into boxes. One look at an appearance, One shake of the hand,
One sentence spoken tells us all we need to know. When we're proven wrong we cower when we should grow. Instead of learning, we call one person different and shun the rest, everyone else like them put into another box where we never test. Test ourselves if this is wrong, or just a trait that helps us survive. Because assumptions based on stereotypes are surely the way to thrive. Everyone has different boxes, and everyone thinks they're right. We'll tell ourselves anything to help us sleep at night.
The problem lies not with the boxes themselves, (though make no mistake they're not exempt from blame), The problem is what we do with these cages, and how they're used to inflict pain. People who don't agree are deemed to be hostile, and thrown in another shed. We need to talk, find some common ground, be able to disagree without blood being bled.