How can I explain it to people. They accuse me of changing my mind. Of flip flopping To them I want to say: "Hey, if you had a life changing decision to make would you just make a snap judgement?" Should I take the road that takes me the farthest? Should I take the road that makes me happy? How can I know what will keep me happiest? There is no guarantee. How am I supposed to choose what is best? Sometimes we make stupid decisions based on stupid things. I'm afraid of making the wrong decision.