Acting desperate for attention is not attractive. Not respecting yourself for attention is not attractive.
Insecure people want attention, secure people demand respect.
Insecure people brag and show off, secure people are humble.
Insecure people PRETEND to be perfect, secure people embrace their flaws.
There's beauty in confidence, but confidence isn't about showing off what you've got,
its more about being secure in what you lack.