ever sit alongside someone you love whose face is gaunt and body is emaciated because her organs are eating her own flesh until there is nothing left to draw upon and her heart will stop her lungs will cease and she smiles at you and says my kids are going to miss me do you still wear a size two? are you seeing anyone? you seem happy, i am glad and you hold her hand and take a picture because any minute she could be gone and you keep crying but you have work to do and old people die everyday but she is something special to you we are soul sisters i tell her and she agrees