Although through this theory based reality
I know how it is probably construed heresy to say
We all go through three distinct phases
Infancy the beginning of  Lucidity to the age of accountability
The age of dependency where rely on
Parental units or who ever will fulfill our need food,shelter ,protection
Second stage the age of puberty accountability immaturity and for some this will not pass without great difficulty
The teenager years where were most likely to face our fears and it's my belief weve become too liberal an soft
And too often this will end in tears
We want to do our own thing we don't need adults for anything we know everything I want the car keys please third stage interdependence the ages
Will vary to a certain degree but
Hopefully actually I fear what the future will hold for this" little miss entitled" generation it's a little bit scary
I'm joking .........ishly
The age of clarity and recompense
We see what we are really made of
In terms of our character which is everything you are !not to be confused with what you're trying to portray
Most often those are two different things .
Anyway it's such a massive compliment that will cause a ripple through time and a badge of honor to see a successful son or daughter
Leading a huge endeavor
As an example
A executive building builder stands side by side with the custodial engineer "the keeper of the Santi-cans regardless of beliefs age color or creed  and admires the billion dollar building turns to the person gives them credit a hand shake and a hug with tears in theyre eyes and says look what we've done together my friend
we  built this building together isn't that worth seeing