He can be quite ordinary,
he likes to have back rubs
kisses on his neck
beard scratches are always welcome
like that would not be amazing
like it should be unnoticed
like it should be easy to give, indeed it is easy
like I shouldn't like it
yet its what I am all about

how then should I tell him
that those are the things I am good at
those are the sparks I want in my life
not just for now but for each day