If you are one that can't deal with all the talk of gender and identity in these changing times...
Consider the fact that an enormous percentage of everyone's time is devoted to how we choose to present ourselves to the world around us. What clothes to wear... What hair style... What makeup... Who you choose as your friends.... Your religious and political preference.
These are all part of your Identity just as much as is your gender or ****** orientation
I believe examining our selves, our prejudice, the beliefs we hold dear.... this is a healthy process. Understanding our own identity -who we are - who we are becoming. These are worthy pursuits that we all seek throughout our lifetime.
To judge a Transgender individual because they don't fit into your world view is a bit hypocritical in light of the fact that we are all concerned about our identity and how we present ourselves to others...