When emotions run deep there is often confusion about the reality of the given situation and we question the validity of our reactions.
But this doesn't mean that there are situations where the reality isn't real, it's just that it is more difficult to determine and choose the correct reaction.
We are influenced by our cultural and our perceived needs, this can be dangerous but also exciting and can provoke extremely strong reactions.
Caution is advocated from our logical mind but emotionally we welcome the chance of some pleasurable action that satisfies our perceived needs.