Things happen for  a reason . Positive experiences push you to reach higher horizons.Negative experiences are "meant" Teach you lessons. "Meant" because as humans , many of us use negative experiences to justify our toxic behaviors. We use them as a reason to just be Ok with our lives. We focus on what happened to us rather than the lesson , and because of that we don't grow. So Here's a not so secret new flash , Life *****  but it could also be beautiful. We cant let our dark paths define us or alter our course. We need to understand that bad things will always  happen in this world and we can't allow ourselves to be consumed by them. What we can control are the good things. We could manifest our lives into anything we desire.  But it all starts with YOU. Be Yourself , Do what makes you happy , Face your Internal and external problems with courage , Analyze what negative experiences want to teach you and you'll see , That Life could be Truly Amazing.