There is power in dashing expectations, shedding them like a second skin to be discarded and forgotten. For someone else to find it. Try it on. Suddenly defined by an ill-fitting ideal they were never meant to fill.
But there is strength in picking it up and making something new of it. Putting it back on, wearing the truth proudly when they tell you it doesn't fit. Doesn't suit you.
When that day comes, hand them the needle and thread. Perhaps these expectations don't suit them either. Maybe it's time we asked the world to start living up to ours.