Love and loss are inextricably connected. The pain of the loss of those we love is beyond this writers ability to say or even imply. The ache is primal and enduring, always there as each image passes our memory. Loss of the material is transitory, the image endures but the ache is gone. Today, we have lost so many with whom we joked and laughed with last week. We know the cause but can’t understand why. Because we can’t understand why we not only suffer the ache of love lost but we, ourselves, are lost and adrift, clinging to others as survivors for fear of being lost ourselves. The bond of caring for each other will keep us afloat, though the chain be broken, love mends all. Together we find the way but the ache of loss never ceases.