2 years ago, November 5th, 2017. I was beaten and ***** by a man that I did not even know. A man that thought it was okay to take my body, without my consent. A man that thought it was okay to drug my drink, so I would be unconscious while he gets his pleasure. A man that thought it was just fine to punch me, scratch me, hit my head against hard surfaces every time I would attempt to get away from him. I still have scars remaining.
A few months ago, October 3rd, 2019. I was sexually assaulted by a man that claimed he cared for me. A man that thought it was okay to feel on me, against my will. A man that thought it was okay to pull me closer, as I'm moving away. A man that thought it was just fine to get angry when I would yell "no" and "stop". I still have scars remaining.
Yet time after time, we blame the victim Maybe it was what she/he was wearing. Maybe it was how she/he was acting. Maybe she/he deserved it, and it taught them a lesson. This mentality is so close-minded, so toxic for the environment Not only that, but it is completely disrespectful. Morally wrong.
This cycle will not stop without help and support for each other. & To anyone else who has experienced something similar, You are strong. This does not define you. I love you.