Sometimes the truth hits me with a Hulk sized fist; knocks me down flat on my back without breath, hitching for air reeling from the blow… that’s gonna hurt in the morning.
Other times it’s a tap on the shoulder or a word in the ear (Psst! Can’t you see?) and a firm hand taking hold and turning me right ‘round “That’s the direction to go, if you please.”
A firm hand and a whisper works as well as the blow and the bruising of ego heals sooner than later.