my mother says things about me rudely right in front of me to people that i have known my entire life. she tells them that i never call that i don't care for her one bit that dad has turned me against her mother, i am five feet away from you. i am not deaf. i can hear everything you are saying to that poor old lady who has no idea why you are telling her this she just wanted to tell you how pretty i looked mother dear, i came to give you a hug only because i knew that if i did everything you just said to that old woman would be revealed as a load of **** yes mom, for once i hugged you and i meant it