I am thankful for the parents who sparked my life... and grateful they gave me up. I'm happy for the people who adopted me, and who they were. I'm blessed that they taught me a love for reading, and encouraged my interests. They never denied or belittled a single one.
I am honored that the bullies at school targeted me for their hostility. They taught me tolerance and compassion. As for the teachers who took me by the hand and gave me the tools to think for myself... thank you. Now for the girl who took my virginity, a smile and a kiss.
For the drill instructor who yelled himself hoarse at me... he gave me forbearance. As for my shipmates, they taught me how to work with others, and made me strong. Thanks to the girls in the waterfront bars who kept me warm at night, they taught me passion.
To my late wife...what can I say? You gave me the gift of your love and the freedom to return it tenfold. You made a man of me. I'm proud I loved you and that it was no other. To my step kids... to hell with the step; I raised you as much as your dad did, and I am honored to have done so.
To all of those who've touched my life both good and bad; you are part of me now... until my life, dissipates with a sigh. Each one of you has shaped and molded me into who I am. I couldn't be me now without every one of you... thank you.
One of the most interesting reads in literature is the opening chapter of Marcus Aurelius' "Meditations" where he takes an accounting of every person who had touched his life and made him the man he was...and thanks them.
If it were up to me that book would still be required reading in high school but sadly we no longer give our kids the tools to become full actualized adults who can think for themselves anymore...we teach them to take a frickin test.