its disappointing to see so many relationships not work out. its sad to think that girls AND guys cheat. its sad to think they lie. its sad that they basically took hold of ones heart and made them believe they actually loved them then do something to completely heartbreaking. if youre single do what you want to do but when your with somebody, you have another mind and heart to think about. if you dont want to be with that person break up with them. SIMPLE. dont go and hurt them by doing something stupid because at the moment it may seem "okay" for YOU but telling that person after you doing what you did, kills them. be honest from the very beginning. theres no point to lie. for myself I'd rather be HURT by the truth other than being KILLED by a lie.