What relates us ? What constitutes family ? Is it by blood ? What are the pillars of family? Or Are there any pillars of family at all ? What are the bounderies ? Or Is it unlimited ? Is there any question of unconditional ? What are the measures to measure functionality ? Or Disfunctionality thereof Is there supposed to be perfect harmony ? Or Is it just an illusion in an attempt of order All the sametime parallel to its true reality Hence the saying we cannot choose family, we can choose friends