Talk to other people, like you are holding of their hand, speak softly and with tenderness like every word is planned, make sure that what you're saying is understood and every word is treated with attention and make sure that it is heard. Treat the conversation like a butterfly at rest, and softly with your moving lips caress the words your best. for language is a weapon that can wound but not draw blood, instead it stabs emotion and makes tears run in a flood, so don't toss words to harm someone as if you throw a dart for what you say can cause great pain and even break a heart