And as bitter as I am about not making any real friends there, or not getting invited to Zellers parties because I was the only one who lived across town...
There is one memory that stays with me.
It was a mother and a child.
The mother was always stressed, but the child was so happy. Glowing.
They loved dolls and dresses, and was the cutest and most polite child I met there.
One day, when the mother was checking out, buying some dolls for her child, I looked at them and then at her and said,
"They are so cute."
And she immediately teared up. She was so overwhelmed that someone might look at a child who is gender non conforming and be okay with it.
She thanked me profusely.
I never saw them again but I hope they are both doing well.