(there are your practice poems) which we’ve all written (there are your professional poems) where we assume the accent of "the poet" and then (there are your Real poems) those where a woman can no longer speak to her mother (and her mother isn’t dead yet) and her husband stays by her side (because their bond is that strong) and that's how things end up (how memories fail) and we all get distracted (from what really matters) and then some child tries to make it right (but fails, again) like some inept diplomat (and then gets distracted...