her wishes? Because she doesn’t always know what’s in her best interest? Because she might be testing you. And you could fail!
Are you afraid to grant her permission? Because if you give her an inch she’ll take a mile. And she’ll only expect more the next time!
Are you afraid to grant her authority on the subject matter? Do you have the bases covered? What will it be that you’ll discover if you let her think that she knows it? A smart aleck is she who has the situation set ups so nobody wins.