sometimes i get so frustrated with my dad i yell at him accuse him blame him i refuse to eat whatever he's spent so much time and effort cooking for me... and all of the above is the result of hating that he has to do it in the first place and it's absolutely idiotic and horrible of me to do this to him but i can't translate the pain in a healthy way i can't articulate that some minuscule dead part of me misses mom even after everything every time she tries to talk to me it's like she pushes this reset button and i am back with my old friends panic attack, despair, hatred and the tears slip out of me so easily i no longer feel them they have become so natural like the freckles on my face my life is freckled with tears