do you know how many times i have logged on to my blog feeling weak not feeling like scrolling through and liking pictures of cats. and i just try to vent, you know? get it all out. but no. i get the dumbest messages. "don't **** yourself! please!!! i love your blog too much!" "NO!!! YOU CAN'T DO IT PLEASE DON'T BE DEAD YOU JUST CAN'T DO IT. I FORBID YOU " as if you could tell me what to do, as if my blog is more important to you than the actual person running it please. i delete the messages on the spot. that's what i like about this site. no one follows me, no one knows me. i can talk and talk and talk all day and nobody will see.