today to reduce the friction , i imagined his hands were yours his rapid gasps as your slow sweet melody in my ear a song familiar yet distant
it’s like the time we spent listening to loud muffled music through closed doors we knew all the words but all we could hear was a thudding beat and softened lyrics or when the living room tv played an instrumental that i twirled to in the kitchen over coffee distant and soft most things with you were like that my version of you was like that
who you are to the world is an armor a protected identity all present and sharp formed from your roots spoken through a body canvas and select dialogue displayed in your recreations of what you want so desperately to be but underneath the armor is a warm bed a dimly lit lamp covered by a bandana a deep belly laugh with reservations tears and fears and everything lovely
so when they ask me “do you miss him” i will gently answer “no” for one simple reason that the “him” i loved died when he gave me a last distant and soft goodbye