He doesn't owe me anything other than himself as he is, as is, and if I don't like what I see that's me to deal with. So what if it will be Valentine's day and I have no Valentine I never try to get one--why would one just fall from the sky? I guess I believe in magic, and misery want someone to commiserate with and soothe me but a bad match won't do, It's worth about as much to me as an old shoe, nothing new