The conversations become pithy. Friendly still, but almost cut-off, like someone pulled the cord on the power drill. The atmosphere isn’t as
relaxed. It’s more of “where are we going” “when are we getting there” Remember when those things didn’t matter. Time was cookie- dough batter you ate unbaked.
And there was no destination for anything to shape. And that was Ok. You can’t place your finger on it when it slips away. It becomes a grease stain
on your favorite pants. You’re stiffer than your starched shirts. Talk is contrived. It hurts almost like your bowel movements. There’s a strain on every consonant. The silences
are filled with anything like that drawer in your kitchen that your spouse wishes you’d clean. But you never make time for it. ***** dishes come first.