the way life works is weird all of the miscommunications are unsettling and confusing social media is just a distraction a distraction from the real world, an avoidance from confrontation why is it that we constantly search for avoidance in reality weβre only hurting ourselves more the more and more avoidance we face the bigger and bigger problems become that we dont. throughout life, we experience feelings all at once or not at all sometimes we think its better to run away until everything catches up and then weβre stuck stuck in quicksand and the only way of getting out is to talk about the problem breaking the ice after we hit the iceburg