Am familiar with the sound of their laughter Toward my physical appearance Something I couldn't change even if I wanted to But its okay Am familiar with the ache in my heart Every time they call me names and push me away And I embraced those names and believed them Am familiar with how they take steps To step on my self esteem and trample my pride And now my esteem is lower than my dignity Am familiar with it all so its ok Am familiar with the constant breaking of my soul and spirit Anytime they befriend me only to use me I know they will use me but I let them anyway Because am familiar with it all Am familiar with being treated like a rock Because no one has shown me how a diamond is treated Am familiar with the looks of disgust they throw my way Because I believe I deserve those looks And when I look in a mirror I cant help but be disgusted with me too Am familiar with peoples backs Because am used to people walking away from me That I have forgotten how it feels to be familiar with new faces But its ok am familiar with it all Am familiar with the ache on my cheek after a slap After I fail to please people around me Am familiar with the insults following after Am familiar to giving up I have been doing it for years now Am familiar with hate Because I have hated myself ever since I knew the meaning Am familiar with giving selflessly and never receiving Because who's there to give me anything anyway Am familiar with it all so its ok Am familiar with the dead girl Who always looks back at me in the mirror Am familiar with her lifeless eyes Her fake smile that never reaches her eyes Familiar with the pain I see through the windows of her soul Am familiar because am her And she's I Am familiar with wanting to end it all With the want to take my life and embrace darkness Am very familiar with hope Hope someone will care That I should hope a little longer Am also familiar with the question What will happen when I give up hoping? But am familiar always have been always will be. - poetry by Joyce Tshibasu