what is it with us & our secrets? someone has little secrets & someone has huge. we meet somebody & we think we know everything about them. the opposite is true. because the mystery usually reveals our real self. why do we have a secret before our family & friends? we can trust them, can't we? wrong. in this world, we can no longer trust anyone. we are not hurt by our enemies, but by our loved ones most of the time. but on the other side, when we don't tell them about our secrets, they can be hurt too, when they find out. we think that we keep safe, when they don't know about our secrets, but sometimes it's even worse. so why do we keep our secrets? because we don't know, who to trust or let us not disappoint them. still, we should not hide our secrets. because we hurt ourselves this way. we're suffering at nights when nobody is listening. we have nightmares that hunt us for years  we should tell someone. often the person we are not expecting will help us.