A friend I have never had
A lover I have only dreamed

A friend to others I have tried to be
To love another was a little hard for me.

To be a friend to myself   many times I neglected
To love myself  came difficult for me to accept it.

So how can I have a friend and
How can I have love?

How can I be a friend to myself  and
how can I love another?

If I can't be any of those things to me.